Godly fathers-ungodly sons-30

We left Absalom’s failed plan to kill his father and take over as King of the nation. How will David deal with his evil, murderous son? Remember, 20,000 men died in his failed attempt.

2 Samuel 18:9  Now Absalom happened to meet the servants of David. For Absalom was riding on his mule, and the mule went under the thick branches of a great oak. And his head caught fast in the oak, so he was left hanging between heaven and earth, while the mule that was under him kept going. 18:10  When a certain man saw it, he told Joab and said, "Behold, I saw Absalom hanging in an oak." 

18:11  Then Joab said to the man who had told him, "Now behold, you saw him! Why then did you not strike him there to the ground? And I would have given you ten pieces of silver and a belt." 

Joab was a man of war and death. He had no special regard for anyone, not even the son of David. Now in his defense, David appeared to not be thinking straight. How would any king handle or deal with a son focused on killing him and taking over his kingdom?

18:12  The man said to Joab, "Even if I should receive a thousand pieces of silver in my hand, I would not put out my hand against the king's son; for in our hearing the king charged you and Abishai and Ittai, saying, 'Protect for me the young man Absalom!' 18:13  "Otherwise, if I had dealt treacherously against his life (and there is nothing hidden from the king), then you yourself would have stood aloof." 

This man spoke truth. He, as did all the others, knew what David had commanded. He also knew that if he had killed Absalom, Joab would not have protected him from the king’s wrath.

18:14  Then Joab said, "I will not waste time here with you." So he took three spears in his hand and thrust them through the heart of Absalom while he was yet alive in the midst of the oak. 18:15  And ten young men who carried Joab's armor gathered around and struck Absalom and killed him. 

Joab’s life was ‘protected’ in the sense he had participated in Uriah’s death as the request of the king. David had no compassion on Uriah, who was innocent. Joab had no compassion on Absalom, who was guilty.

2Sa 18:16  Then Joab blew the trumpet, and the people returned from pursuing Israel, for Joab restrained the people. 

18:17  They took Absalom and cast him into a deep pit in the forest and erected over him a very great heap of stones. And all Israel fled, each to his tent. 18:18  Now Absalom in his lifetime had taken and set up for himself a pillar which is in the King's Valley, for he said, "I have no son to preserve my name." So he named the pillar after his own name, and it is called Absalom's Monument to this day. 

Prideful Absalom was more interested in protecting his name than preserving his father’s life.

2Sa 18:19  Then Ahimaaz the son of Zadok said, "Please let me run and bring the king news that the LORD has freed him from the hand of his enemies." 

18:20  But Joab said to him, "You are not the man to carry news this day, but you shall carry news another day; however, you shall carry no news today because the king's son is dead." 18:21  Then Joab said to the Cushite, "Go, tell the king what you have seen." So the Cushite bowed to Joab and ran. 18:22  Now Ahimaaz the son of Zadok said once more to Joab, "But whatever happens, please let me also run after the Cushite." And Joab said, "Why would you run, my son, since you will have no reward for going?"  18:23  "But whatever happens," he said, "I will run." So he said to him, "Run." Then Ahimaaz ran by way of the plain and passed up the Cushite. 

Apparently, it was an honor to deliver news to the king in regard to important matters, of which, this battle was one.

18:24  Now David was sitting between the two gates; and the watchman went up to the roof of the gate by the wall, and raised his eyes and looked, and behold, a man running by himself. 18:25  The watchman called and told the king. And the king said, "If he is by himself there is good news in his mouth." And he came nearer and nearer. 18:26  Then the watchman saw another man running; and the watchman called to the gatekeeper and said, "Behold, another man running by himself." And the king said, "This one also is bringing good news." 18:27  The watchman said, "I think the running of the first one is like the running of Ahimaaz the son of Zadok." And the king said, "This is a good man and comes with good news." 

You could describe this as wishful thinking. What type of news would be good to David?

18:28  Ahimaaz called and said to the king, "All is well." And he prostrated himself before the king with his face to the ground. And he said, "Blessed is the LORD your God, who has delivered up the men who lifted their hands against my lord the king." 18:29  The king said, "Is it well with the young man Absalom?" And Ahimaaz answered, "When Joab sent the king's servant, and your servant, I saw a great tumult, but I did not know what it was." 18:30  Then the king said, "Turn aside and stand here." So he turned aside and stood still. 

Of all the men who had fought. Of all the men who had died. David did not seem in the least interested. His one and only question is about the safety of Absalom!

2Sa 18:31  Behold, the Cushite arrived, and the Cushite said, "Let my lord the king receive good news, for the LORD has freed you this day from the hand of all those who rose up against you." 

18:32  Then the king said to the Cushite, "Is it well with the young man Absalom?" And the Cushite answered, "Let the enemies of my lord the king, and all who rise up against you for evil, be as that young man!" 18:33  The king was deeply moved and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. And thus he said as he walked, "O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! Would I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!" 

Again. what information did David seek? Only about the safety of Absalom! His response seems totally out of place to the events that had forced him to flee. What kind of emotional love for a son totally ignores his behavior toward his father? His lament almost came true, in that, if Absalom had succeeded, David would have died.

Many parents today have similar emotional attachments to children and permit them to run wild and ungodly. They make excuses, they deny personal responsibility, and oppose any punishment or condemnation.

Proverbs 22:6  Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it. 

David failed to train up his first three sons, all who were killed by others.

More next Saturday.